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| Today had been an okay day. I didn't have any classes to attend today, but I did have to finish up a lab I'm doing in Chemistry, so I went to the Lab and attempted but failed to finish it. It will get finished on Tuesday Lord willing. So my homeboi Terrence wanted to take me out today since I had already had plans with someone else for V-Day. But instead of letting him spend his money on me, I decided to invite him to an FCA meeting, (Fellowship of Christian Athletes) We were having a discussion about stress..and that if GOD is our SUPER HERO then why do we have stress. Terrence really enjoyed himself. When we first walked in...a lot of people were looking at us like "Are they a couple?" it was funny to me...but no were not..were just really cool and he is a sweetheart. So I realized that I have unneccessary stress in my life...and that I really need to take all the stress that I currently have and throw it out the window, because there is no need for me to be stressed when I have GOD!! right on my side!!!! So my roomie and I decided that we are leaving tomorrow to go see our family, so we should be outta here after our last class. I really wanna see my momma!! and my grandparents also. I think Alicia and I may get pedicures while we our on our mini-break..which would be nice, because lately we have been so busy with school and trying to get internships and part-time jobs, that we can't pamper ourselves. Well I'm about to go to my room and review for thiis Calculus II quiz I will have tomorrow.
~Toodles~ | | |
| Wow, Yesterday was fantastic!!! Ok so you know how earlier, I didn't have any plans for Valentines Day, well last saturday, my homie Josh called me (HE IS FINE) LOL, and told me that if he had anyone to take out it would be ME!! Isn't that sweet. Well he decided to take me to the movies and out to eat. Josh is so cool, he's real down to earth and just my homeboy so there's no strings attached. It's kind of hard trying not to see him as b/f material, because he is fine and we cool as H*** but for now we just kicking it and that's the way we both like it. So we went to go see Final Destination 3 which was aight..I mean if you've seen the past two you basicaly know how its going to end. Then we went to Red Lobster, why does half of my school work there. I was like DANG!! And my stalker was there too...it was too funny. I was ducking in front of Josh. So I also got a pretty rose from him also. He is so sweet. So guess what happened before Josh picked me up. Well one of my other homies came to my dorm and gave me some chocolates, a rose, a card and a teddy bear and he wants to take me out today, since I went out last night. Isn't that sweet. I mean this stuff never happens to me on Valentines Day!! Then one of my other homies in Gospel Choir gave me a rose before Valentines Day!! So out of my whole 19 years this has got to be the BEST VALENTINES DAY EVER!!
And it's funny because I don't go with either one. You would have thought that we are at least dating and we aren't. So before I went out with Josh, Marcus (my ex) called me and asked me what I was doing. I told him that I was going out on a date, he seemed a little surprised, but I told him that I would give him a call when I got back. So when Josh dropped me off, I called Marcus and he was in my dorm and somebody's Valentines Day party and so we decided to meet up and talk. So by this time I was already in my PJ's and my hair was up in a sloppy bun, but I still looked cute. Ha!! Anyway he was playing around with me at first and then he started asking me questions on how my date went. Now this Negro didn't want to know how it went he was just trying to be NOSEY!!! So I told him that I went out to eat and to a movie. So then he was like what did he give you and I told him ROSES!!! His face was like  !!! Yes honey Roses!! So after that we talked for a minute and then we left. But all in all I'm feeling great and I'm not gonna let anything spoil my day, Heck my week either.
~Toodles~ | | |
| Ok so I just got in from my community service..and I checked my Facebook..and one of my homegirls sent me this:
GIRLS VS. WOMEN
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.
Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time'even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women!!
PASS THIS ON TO OTHER FEMALES WHO YOU FEEL ARE WOMEN, NOT GIRLS!!!
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| Ok so last night my roomie Alicia's dad came down and brought her car..Praise GOD!! and then from there we went to sign our leases on our new apt. We also viewed a model apt. It was so cute...our rooms had walk in closets...I mean you could fit about 15 ppl up in that piece. But anyhoo after we signed...we went to TGIF and pigged out, that food was so freaking good. So we got back in around 11:30 in the P.M. and i still had 17 Chemistry questions to do ...they were so long..so I only got like 11 of them done.
On another note...what is up with these ignorant, having no home training girls....Ok so my dorm building is huge it has a reception center and computer lab in it and the cafe...so basically its the HANG OUT SPOT!! tell me why these girls from a different dorm come up in our building fighting....so SWAT!! comes and starts masing people so everyone is running like it was a riot in 1963...So now my dorm has no visitation prolly for 2 weeks and the girls don't get caught..I am so heated. And to make matters worse they are freshman girls. Thats why I can't wait until Aug. 12 when I can move off campus in my apt. I was talking to a girl in the computer lab...and I was telling her that you should carry yourself like a lady at all times...be careful what you say and do...because people are watching you and making observations of you at all times. While your out making a fool of yourself..you might miss out on someone with some sense taking an interest in you. Think about it, no guy wants a girl that is cussing, and fighting all the time. Heck no!! That's not CUTE!!!! When will these girls ever learn. And the same goes for guys too...who wants a guy that is obnoxious...and always cussing and fighting...I know not me!! Heck no!!! WON'T BE ABLE!!!
Ok so enough of me venting. Wow I want to have a date for V-Day!!! And I prolly won't have one. Well enough complaining, I learned over the weekend that it's a sin. GOtta Go!!
~Toodles~ | | |
| Well I just finished failing my Calculus II test. It's the first test so I'm not tripping that hard..but I'm still highly upset. I decided not to go to my Spanish 101 class because I know it so well. Well at 2:30 I'll be leaving to go to FCA camp.(Fellowship of Christian Athletes) I won't be back till Sunday soooo yeah no computer entries from me. I saw my "honey" Marcus yesterday on the bus and I sat beside him. He was on the phone with his mom and he said "Ma, here's Ashley" so he gave me the phone and I was like" Hi, mom!! My honey's leaving me.." And she said that I have to come to Chicago..so I told her that I would..and she was really excited and said that I'm more than welcome...so I feel so special now. Even though I haven't met his mom, her and I seem to get along really good when we talk on the phone. I imagine Marcus has said positive things about me to her. But yup it's official, my "Honey" is leaving for FAMU!!! But i'm ok with it, because he agreed to visit and stay with me at my apt. when he visits, and I'm gonna make a trip to Chi-Town..before the year is up. I'm gonna miss him sooo much and I know that he'll miss me a lot too. But I am happy for him..belive it or not...because I know that this was in God's plan. Plus he won't be too far from my school its about a 5-6 hour drive...not that bad!!! I guess. I was talking to my suitemate Jamie last night and I was telling her..that I don't plan to have another boyfriend any time soon because Marcus and I are still an "Open Book" we are nowhere near getting closed...even if he is leaving. His first baseball game is tomorrow...I wish I could be there but I have FCA camp sooo I'll just make it to his other games. Well I need to pack so I'll holla lata. Everyone have a safe weekend...and don't get too drunk when watching the Super Bowl.
~Toodles~
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